“It’s not you it’s me”
Dec 17th, 2006 by Ashley
But sometimes it’s hard not to take it personally.
It’s partly caused by self-centeredism, which sometimes hurts ourselves, surprisingly.
Sam left, because that’s who he is.
You knew when you saw him passed the studio by glancing at her for the very last time.
But you imagined being at her place.
Thought you had convinced him for staying and he left without an official goodbye.
How you’d fall. You knew it’s who he is. He told you with true sincerity.
Still, at least deep within, you’d doubt yourself.
You’d take it personally.
We always, perhaps unconsciously, hope that we can change them,
we can melt them down,
we’re the persons coming to their rescue and turns out we are not.
Sometimes, it’s really simple.
It’s not us; it’s them.
It’s not me; it’s you.